Saturday 28 March 2009

Spring has sprung

Niente traduzione in italiano, sorry - mi sento pigra...

And surprises never cease! Did you know that the robin in the US is a rather different bird from the one in Europe? I had been observing some rather nice birds outside my house which looked like this -



and I couldn't figure out what they were. S & Y at work suggested they might be robins, given the red breast, which confused me somewhat since my stereotypical image of robins is more like this -



But having consulted the Wisdom Of Teh Internets, I find that they are indeed both robins, just, like, completely different and not even related. You learn something new every day.

ANYway, enough with the David Attenborough posturing. It's been ages since I blogged, but then I've seen most of you in that time, so I guess it's not so remiss of me. I'm so exhausted and I can't quite believe that just last week I was in Naples caught up in the celebrations for my aunt's 90th, it feels like a century ago already, and the Oxford visit even more so. It was a little odd going back to work after such a longish break, but luckily there was much to keep me busy and engaged straight away - elation at being accepted for another conference (Corpus Linguistics in July, in Liverpool!), work on an abstract for a proposed journal paper, and actually starting to program and process the parser output. Some of the initial issues I had already encountered in my DPhil work, and I'd written some code to deal with them: I was very pleased to find yesterday that said code was reusable to a certain extent, and was to the best of my ability the most rational way of addressing the problem. Given how inelegant and slow a programmer I am, this was incredibly exciting for me.

But my aunt's party was a great chance for a big family reunion, and getting a few generations of people together, especially those who'd more or less never seen each other before. A lot of hard work, but worth it as everyone seemed to have fun, and it was very touching to see people's eyes light up as they saw this cousin or that and had the opportunity to sit and chat in a relaxed, just-like-old-times manner. So I'm glad we did it!

On the flight back I watched two films I'd been wanting to see for a while, Rachel Getting Married and Burn After Reading. I really liked the first one, despite its rather relentless misery. For reasons unclear to me, I have a soft spot for Anne Hathaway, so I was pleased to see her do a good job in something not twee. It's grim, and doesn't try to whitewash over problems, and family disfunction, and that is good. Though it left me feel quite depressed, so I thought I'd watch Burn After Reading for comic relief. I had such high expectations, I mean, how could you go wrong with that cast? But I have to conclude that I just don't get the Coen brothers. Apart from O Brother Where Art Thou, I just...don't get it. Don't like it (No Country for Old Men being a particularly obvious example, but by no means the only one). Maybe I'm not sophisticated enough or something.

Oh, and I am officially Dr. De Felice now, having deposited a copy of my DPhil thesis in the Bod (but sadly, it's not on OLIS yet!).

Um, so, the eagle-eyed among you might have noticed that I'm neatly avoiding discussing how I felt about being back in Oxford and all that. I had fun - it was tiring as I tried to pack a lot in, and there were a lot of fun&games organised over the weekend - and, well, that's all I'm going to say. I'm here now, and that's that. And, as soon as I've figured out how to acquire a car, and taken a couple of (already booked!) lessons, I'll be driving myself wherever I please!

Thursday 26 March 2009

Interlude

The leaves on the trees are starting to bud again (if that's the right word). It's very pretty, even when it's cloudy outside. And, just like the trees, I will soon sprout a new blog post - it's been a hectic few weeks, and I'm still catching up!

Sunday 8 March 2009

So many achievements!

Versione italiana segue il testo inglese

Some of you may have seen it on my Facebook status: I now have a New Jersey driver's license! Beware! Hehe :-) I was actually slightly surprised I got the actual license already, as it wasn't clear what the rules about converting a foreign license are. So yesterday I went to the place in the middle of nowhere to take the required knowledge/theory test, which I managed not to fail despite my scant knowledge of all the weird laws and fines regulating driving offences in the state. Then they saw my Italian license, saw that it had been issued in 2004, concluded that I was therefore "an experienced driver", and waived the requirement for a road test - so I got my full license straight away!!! How exciting! Of course, I am not a reckless fool and I will take some driving lessons so that I can actually drive - but it's nice to have all the paperwork out of the way, and not having to worry about passing the road test too. And maybe soon I can get my own car and take more control of my life...

Generally it's been a good past few days, after the horrors of the illness the previous week. And there is much excitement and good things in the weeks to come, so I definitely feel that the long harsh winter is over, and I'm actually looking forward to the next few months, and hoping that - assuming I stay illness-free - you will only hear of happy and good things from me.

I've tried to keep my word and work on my baking. First I tried making chocolate cupcakes. The batter was utterly delicious, so I was very excited about them, but somehow the sweetness and deliciousness got lost in the baking and they were fairly uninteresting when they came out, though my friends kindly ate them anyway and said they weren't so bad. But I persisted, because that's the kind of tough girl I am! And I found a recipe for a simple cake suggested by my beloved Nigel Slater. And it worked, and is rather nice! You can find the recipe here, it's the third one down - as you can see it's just a basic cake with nuts and raisins, but I think next time I will put chocolate chips in instead to be more decadent. So there is definitely hope for me and baking, though as I've discussed with some of my friends lately, I think the problem is that temperamentally I am not well-suited to it since I don't like following recipes to the letter, and that doesn't always work so well with baking...

In other news, my involvement with the Girl Scouts is now official and underway! On Friday I met Karen, the leader I am going to be working with, and the troop of 6-year olds I will be in charge of (yeah, right) - I have to say they all look rather sweet and adorable and I am really excited about this! It was a county-wide event for various troops (Thinking Day, for those of you who know what I'm talking about), and it was something I loved participating in when I was a Scout, so it was really nice that this was my first event back in Scouting. I don't think it's going to be easy all the time, but I am really excited about this, and I think it will be good for me - plus I've missed doing volunteering-y things...stay tuned for more episodes of me vs. the 6-year-olds...

I'd also been whingeing a bit about work recently, and feeling I wasn't doing anything worthwhile, but that seems to be changing, too. Last week I was told I'd been accepted at one of the conferences I'd sent an abstract off to, which is great news, and towards the end of the week work did suddenly seem like it was coming together - I've actually started looking at how to turn sentences into bundles of features, what tools I will need, what sort of programming...nice, concrete things - surely it will require a bit of head-banging, but eventually once it all comes together it will be very satisfying. Like the prepositions, but maybe even better. :-)

And to top it all off, I gave myself a weekend in New York, having realised I hadn't left Princeton since early January! It was a lot of fun - on Saturday evening I had dinner at Ranj's friend (well, now my friend too!) Pablo who is an amazing cook and really good fun; highlights of our conversation included the problems of having English partners who don't understand the intricacies of Mediterranean family structures :-) I was also personally rather amused to find one of the wines I really enjoy (made by these people - Oddbins often stock it) in a rather dodgy liquor store on Columbus Avenue, into which I had wandered more out of desperation than any real hope of finding anything potable. Proof that NYC never fails to surprise. On Sunday I went to see my cousin & her fiance's new flat. It is beautiful, and in an unbelievable location in Long Island City, which is basically just across the water from downtown Manhattan, meaning you get amazing views of the skyline. You can actually sort of see the flat in this photo - it's the tall building just on the left edge of the picture, the flat is on one of the lower floors, but you still get a view...sooo beautiful. I love NYC more and more every time I go. I love big cities, I can't help it...I even slept with the window open last night and listened to the noise of the traffic. We also went to Ikea today - there is one in Brooklyn, which struck me as a bit odd, but I guess not any more odd than having one in the centre of Coventry, and mercifully it wasn't run over by hipsters, so it wasn't too bad.

So now I am ready to start the week - a little knackered, but also fairly happy about life, and glad the worst seems to be over - both in terms of physical and mental wellbeing. So many fun things are going to happen in the next few weeks and months, AND the weather is going to improve - I should really have no cause for complaint, so feel free to slap my wrists if I do!

In Italiano

Alcuni di voi forse l'avranno visto sulla mia pagina di Facebook: ho la patente del New Jersey! Chiudetevi in casa! Hehe :-) Veramente non credevo che mi avrebbero dato la patente vera e propria da subito, perche' il regolamento riguardante la conversione delle patenti straniere non era molto chiaro. Comunque ieri sono andata alla motorizzazione, che era in c*** al mondo, per fare il quiz di teoria come richiesto dalla legge, e fortunatamente sono riuscita a passarlo nonostante le mie scarse conoscenze di tutte le strani leggi e multe in vigore in questo stato. Poi hanno visto la mia patente italiana, hanno visto che e' stata rilasciata nel 2004, e hanno concluso che quindi sono una "guidatrice esperta", e che non c'e' bisogno di fare il test di pratica - e cosi' mi hanno dato la patente completa li' per li'!!! Che emozione! Ovviamente non sono completamente sprovveduta e voglio fare un po di lezioni in modo da riuscire a guidare - ma sono contenta di aver risolto tutta la burocrazia annessa, e di non dovermi preoccupare di passare il test di pratica. E forse a breve posso comprare una macchina e recuperare un po il controllo della mia vita...

In generale gli ultimi giorni sono stati buoni, dopo gli orrori della malattia della settimana precedente. E ci sono molte gioie e cose buone nelle settimane a venire, quindi sento che il lungo e duro inverno e' finito, e i prossimi mesi dovrebbero essere belli, e si spera che - a patto che rimanga priva di malattie - avrete solo belle notizie da me.

Ho cercato di essere di parola e impegnarmi con la cucina dei dolci. Prima ho tentato dei cupcake al cioccolato. L'impasto era delizioso, e aspettavo i risultati con ansia, ma non so come la dolcezza e deliziosita si sono persi nella cottura e quando sono usciti non erano molto interessanti, anche se le mie amiche gentilmente li hanno mangiati comunque e hanno detto che non erano male. Ma io non mi sono persa d'animo! E ho trovato una ricetta per una torta semplice, che ha funzionato a meraviglia! La ricetta e' qui, la terza - come potete vedere e' una torta base con noci e uvetta, ma la prossima volta credo che ci mettero' delle gocce di cioccolato per essere piu decadente. Quindi c'e' speranza per me e i dolci, anche se, come si e' concluso con alcuni amici recentemente, il problema e' che caratterialmente non sono molto portata per queste cose perche' non mi piace seguire le ricette alla lettera, e cio non funziona sempre con i dolci...

In altre notizie, il mio coinvolgimento con le Girl Scout e' adesso ufficialmente cominciato! Venerdi ho conosciuto Karen, la leader con cui lavorero, e il gruppo di bambine di 6 anni di cui mi dovro' occupare - devo dire che sono tutte tanto belline e carine e non vedo l'ora! C'era un evento per vari gruppi della zona (Thinking Day, per chi sa di cosa sto parlando), ed era una cosa che mi piaceva un sacco quando ero una scout, quindi sono stata contenta che e' questo e' stata la prima cosa che ho fatto al ritorno negli Scout. Certo non sara' sempre facile, ma per ora sono molto contenta, e credo che mi fara' bene - e sentivo la mancanza di un po di volontariato...prossimamente seguiranno altre puntate di me vs. le bambine di 6 anni...

Recentemente mi sono anche lamentata un po del lavoro, perche sentivo che non stavo facendo niente di valore, ma anche questo sembra che stia cambiando. La settimana scorsa ho saputo di essere stata accettata a una delle conferenze a cui avevo mandato un abstract, il che e' molto bello, e verso la fine della settimana all'improvviso le cose sul lavoro hanno cominciato ad avere piu senso - al momento sto vedendo come trasformare frasi in features, quali strumenti usare, come programmare il tutto...cose belle, concrete - certo richiedera' un po di sbattimento-di-testa-nel-muro, ma alla fine dara' molta soddsifazione. Come le preposizioni, ma forse ancora meglio. :-)

E per concludere, mi sono concessa un weekend a New York, essendomi resa conto che non avevo lasciato Princeton dall'inizio di gennaio. E' stato molto divertente - sabato sera sono andata a cena dal mio amico Pablo che e' un cuoco fantastico e molto simpatico; tra le altre cose si e' discusso del problema di avere un partner inglese che non capisce le complessita' delle strutture familiari mediterranee :-) Sono anche rimasta molto sopresa e divertita dal fatto che ho trovato uno dei vini che mi piacciono molto (fatto da queste persone) in un negozio di vini piuttosto dubbio su Columbus Avenue, nel quale ero entrata piu per disperazione che nella speranza di trovare qualcosa di potabile. A riprova che New York non smette mai di soprendere. Domenica sono andata a vedere il nuovo appartamento di cugina&fidanzato. E' bellissimo, in luogo stupendo a Long Island City, che e' praticamente di fronte a downtown Manhanttan, il che significa viste perfette della skyline. Si puo' quasi vedere l'appartamento in questa foto - e' l'edificio al margine sinistro della foto, l'appartamento e' a uno dei piani piu bassi, ma si vede comunque un po di panorama...trooooppo bello. Ogni volta che vado NYC mi piace sempre di piu. Mi piacciono le grandi citta, non ci posso fare niente...ho perfino dormito con la finestra aperta e ascoltato il rumore del traffico. Oggi siamo anche andati da Ikea, ce n'e' una a Brooklyn, molto comodo!

E cosi sono pronta per cominciare la settimana - un po stanca, ma anche piuttosto felice, felice soprattutto che il peggio sembra essere passato - per quel che riguarda il benessere sia fisico che mentale. Ci sono un sacco di cose divertenti in programma per le prossime settimane e i prossimi mesi, e in piu il clima migliorera - davvero non dovrei avere motivo di lamentarmi, quindi sentitevi liberi di darmi un buffo se lo faccio!